Tuesday, 17 June 2008

The Bond


I've got way too much things to do lately. and i'm almost panicking! i have at least 15 cards to finish by the beginning of next month, birthday parties to plan, birthday presents to get, a logo to design, the whole house to clean (we're expecting some special guests!), emails and comments to reply, clothes to iron (thank God the washing's all done!), a 21 month old boy to juggle and blogs to write (see how much i love you guys!)... and when you have a 21 month old boy wanting to "help" with almost everything, it doesnt make it much easier and quicker! Hardy was away the last few days and i'm handling the house and our son alone, and when Aidan goes to bed at night, i feel like tucking myself to bed as well! there, there you have it - reasons why i have been quiet for the past week or so.

But Hardy's back from Helsinki! yeay! and i'm a little bit relaxed, but not for long i guess! i still have tonnes to do!


Anyway, it was Father's Day last Sunday. Hardy woke up with our son on the bed, all washed and cleaned, with a couple of presents and a colourful card. i dont think i could top what he did for me on Mother's Day, but hopefully he knows how much we love him! the boys then continued to mess the entire bed , shared a few loud giggles and tickles ... and then this...


I love to see the bond between the two, they are extremely close. i love watching them make silly moves and say silly things. i love looking at Aidan on Hardy's shoulders, i love listening to them giggling away. i love looking at them holding hands, i love it when Hardy teaches Aidan how to swing a golf club or kick a ball, i love it when they play at the sand pit, i love it when they talk to each other eventhough they might not get what each other's trying to say, i just love it when Aidan calls Hardy "papa" with his own tune (gives me time to at least relax a bit.. haha)... i simply love the dad in Hardy. and the best bit is when Hardy gets back from his trips, the voice, the tone, the expressions, the actions and reactions are even greater!

I know Aidan looks up to his dad. i also know how much they both adore each other. it's really nice to see the 2 of them together... it's just pure bliss! (plus the fact that i get to be on my own! hehe)

We all love our dads, deeply. we all have different ways of showing how much we love them. but the bottom line is still the same, we simply adore and love them.

Z

5 comments:

Rita Ho said...

This is such a beautiful post, Z. I went from "pant! pant! pant!" for you to "awww... Awww.... AWWWW!". The near perfect mom and wife in you never fail to show up, simply admirable.

We had two days of sun during the weekend and I stored some up. So, warm hugs from Seattle!

afi's fav aunt said...

aww..so cute..aidan nye rosy cheek i sgt jeles..xpyah pakai blusher..i used to love celebrating father's day cz its always d time kuar mkn kat hotel besh2(meisan h.i d greatest la kan..dok jb manede choice bebyk,kn?)..busy finding the perfect gift n card 4 my late ayah(kalau budget lari,3 org share 1 card)..but eversince 7 years ago i started to hate it so much..da xde ayah nak celebrate... :-(.. anyway,to all of u..pls love n cherish ur parents endlessly..xpayah la nak tunggu mother's day ke,father's day ke..when they are no longer with u,it wud be too late to do anything..sob..sob..eh..termeluah perasaan plak kat blog u ni kak.za..sowie..tumpang lalu..(sambil membongkokkan bdn tanda hormat)hehhehe..

Anonymous said...

hi zaza..

i've missed your posts for quite sometimes... have been very very busy at work and home... but anyway, i'm now back on track and have read all your post since May...
just one thing i'd like to tell you...."zaza is one the luckiest person on earth..." Hope you and your family will live happily ever after..like those fairytale stories...

~adda~

Milkberry said...

Oh Zaza that is just so sweet!

nina said...

what a feeling kan to see them bonding.. and yeah, i simply adore my 2 boys, both dad and son...